I am not
sure which is more stressful these days. Looking and hoping to find a
relationship or trying to maintain and manage one.
With the trends constantly changing, one
particular trend seems to be causing the most uproar. Having a boo or bae on the
side is the new must have or accessory of sorts. Monogamy, commitment and
longevity seems to be going out of style at an alarming rate!
It would appear that 3 out of 5 single people
are experiencing the infamous old bait and switch. You meet that special
someone thinking you are in or building a relationship only to find yourself in
a situation-ship with minimal possibilities of ever securing a solid committed
union.
With that
being said, I wonder
How has the
current side piece culture affected you?
Has it
affected your ability to obtain and or maintain a quality relationship?
Has the side
boo forever changed relationships and the expectations?
Let’s be
honest the side chic has been around since the beginning of time.
From Moses,
David, and Noah of the biblical days to that time when Barbra received a call
from Shirley in the infamous R&B throwback song, “Woman to Woman”.
However,
over the past decade, the rise and popularity of the side chic has been incredible
at best. Contrary to popular belief, the side chic appears to be winning at all
costs. The media has focused so much attention on the matter it’s no wonder the
trend has become mainstream.
Reality show features, (Love & Hip Hop
ATL/NY) Instagram popularity, financial gain, rewarded the benefits of a
relationship without having to do any work are just a few of the kick- backs.
Last but not least, in some cases; the side piece has been successful in
dethroning the current wife! Let’s take a look at a few high profile
celebrities or television personalities to assist with making my point:
1.
Kevin
and Eniko Hart
2.
Dewayne
Wade and Gabrielle Union
3.
Brad
Pitt and Angelina Jolie
4.
Swizz
Beatz and Alicia Keys
5.
Prince
Charles and Camilla Parker Bowles
6.
Leann
Rhimes and Eddie Cibrian
Gone are the
days when the side chic was on the sidelines, quietly waiting her turn for time
and affection or being the dirty little secret.
No, today the side chic knows her place, plays
her position, flaunts her status has no shame and collects her coins.
I have
trouble reconciling this chaos.
I mean Open
relationship and polyamorist relationships are no longer taboo. It’s a subject
widely discussed and many people are forthcoming regarding their lifestyle.
Famed
comedian, actress and radio host Mo’Nique and her husband Sidney Hicks recently
disclosed they have an open relationship. For years, it has been rumored Will
Smith and Jada Pinkett have an open marriage. Others that have not fallen by
the wayside would include Demi Moore/ Ashton Kutcher and Robin Thick / Paula
Patton.
So, how does
a society that has evolved beyond the shame and secrecy from open and
polyamorist relationships breed so much life into the side piece antics?
Furthermore,
is there any hope of obtaining a totally committed monogamous relationship in
this era and current climate?
And for those who
are in existing relationships, are you able to side piece proof your relationship?
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